If you’ve ever spent the night at the home of the guy you’re dating, you may have noticed it wasn’t exactly what you’d call clean. Most men aren’t known for their cleaning habits – you may have had to step over fast food wrappers or found yourself without any toilet paper at his place. So some ladies, who are fed up with their boyfriend’s messy apartments, are taking to TikTok to air their grievances.

This new trend of revealing their S.O.’s homes on the social media site started with TikTok user Madelyn Kruger’s video earlier this month:

@madelynkrueger

When it’s your turn to stay at HIS place.. #dontletthisflop #fyp #help #college

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Since that video, other women have been making their own to show their boyfriend’s living conditions aren’t any better. Kat Tolch shows her man’s filthy kitchen and nasty hair on the bathroom sink and Madison Mercogliano posted a video of her boyfriend’s disgusting kitchen and his bathroom counter littered with used paper towels. If you’ve ever been to a young guy’s apartment, you know these tours are pretty much what they all look like.